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The
Wedding of Jessica and Branden
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We
are gathered here today in friendship and happiness to witness Jessica
and Branden pledge their love in a setting that can never be duplicated
in the entire world.
The
reality is that everyone's life is limited to only a certain amount
of time. As Robert G. Ingersoll said, "The time to be happy
is now. The place to be happy is here." Take the time to make
your partner feel special. Never take each other for granted.
Take the time
to listen and to share. Give each other the benefit of the doubt
because communication will be different at times and misunderstandings
are inevitable. It takes time, effort, courage, and commitment to
make a successful marriage.
Take the time
to negotiate, to talk about your fears, failures, and disappointments.
Talk about each other's expectations, hopes, and dreams. Be flexible
and willing to adapt well to changes and new circumstances. Above
all, take the time to tell each other what you want. Take the risk
of being vulnerable with each other.
Jessica and
Branden, take each other by the hand and exchange your vows. Jessica
please go first.
Jessica: We are together now, we two
or haven't you noticed that we seem to spend a lot of time side
by side. We wrote the kind of notes that people in love write, you
walked me to class, and we looked into each other's eyes. Now I
promise this day to love you as I did the day we met. As we grow
together, I will always love you and care for you. We must work
through life together and I will always be by your side. Together
we can do all that we have dreamed.
Branden.
Branden:
Today I will marry my friend: that one I laugh with, live for, and
dream with. We knew we loved each other and no matter what our age,
we knew that we were meant to be together. I promise I will love
you forever. I will work hard all the days of my life to take care
of you and if we have to grow up, we can do it together. I will
love you more than anyone has ever loved you and I will take you
away to a place that's just our place, and I will protect you all
of your life.
Branden,please
repeat after me:
As your husband
and your friend -
I promise
that I will stand by you -
In sickness
and in health -
For better
and for worse -
For richer
and for poorer -
For as long
as we both shall live -
Do you, Branden
take Jessica to be your wife and pledge to her your respect and
faithful love from this day forward?
(Branden says,
"I do.")
Please place
Jessica's ring on her finger.
Jessica, please
repeat after me:
As your wife
and your friend -
I promise
that I will stand by you -
In sickness
and in health -
For better
and for worse -
For richer
and for poorer -
For as long
as we both shall live -
Do you Jessica,
take Branden, to be your husband and pledge to him your respect
and faithful love from this day forward?
(Jessica says,
"I do.")
Please place
Branden's ring on his finger.
You will be
reminded each day of your commitment to this marriage with the wearing
of your wedding ring. Jessica and Branden, you have formalized in
our presence the existence of the bond of love between you - vowing
to be loyal and loving toward one another. In expressing your affirmations,
you have pronounced yourself husband and wife.
I now pronounce
Jessica and Branden to be husband and wife.
Please embrace
and kiss for the first time as husband and wife.
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