A
Naming Ceremony or Family Welcome replaces the tradition of a christening. Many
families believe, as we do, that religious beliefs can be chosen
or discarded after a person has examined the world around them.
Celebrations offers
a creative and beautiful welcome for your child. I
can create a unique ceremony using family history, poetry, music
and Freethought prose. The naming or welcoming ceremony usually
lasts twenty minutes.
During the ceremony family members may elect to
state their love and commitment to the child. Instead of godparents,
people choose relatives or friends to become "guide parents,"
"supporting adults," "mentors" or "special
friends." They can also join in the ceremony, saying how they
will be there for the child as he or she grows up.
There are many ways to make the ceremony memorable.
The occasion can be marked with a book for everyone in attendance
to write a special message for the child to read in later years.
A tree may be planted to grow along with the child. Brothers and
sisters can join in the ceremony and other relatives and friends
may wish to contribute too. Many families
hold a celebratory party to complete the event.
A ceremony such as this is highly recommended
for an adopted child or for a newly blended family. The event will
create a glorious bond between all family members and will have
an everlasting value for the well-being of the child.
A secular naming ceremony replaces
the tradition of a christening. As Freethinkers, we believe
children should not be indoctrinated into any religious belief without
regard to their own feelings and thoughts.